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Mark Sargent's avatar

Grief has been described as love with nowhere to go.

One of the things that has always resonated with me is your ability to connect with your emotions. It doesn’t get talked about enough, I say this as a 48 year old male. We don’t set an example that this is a valid way to navigate the world.

Your journey from a materialistic perspective to one of interconnection mirrors my own, this has been unfolding in a profound way over the last few years. I use the same words and make the same clarification about the definition of materialism. We each have our own gateway into this connectedness journey, and in my case if I look back there were many on ramps that I ignored. The path for me was being intentional about feeling my feelings, a small thing with profound ramifications. Notice the tingling up your spine, the shivers you get, the moments of tightness and constriction. Your body and your mind are here to work together, spending more time building this awareness is a powerful thing, in truth it is an internal compass.

My journey to greater self awareness and consciousness is something that I started to experience in my mid forties, my daughter started her journey in her late teens. Our collective consciousness seems is evolving, we see it in successive generations. My hope is that a better understanding of ourselves and our connectedness are the tools need to help us make a planet preserving, planet loving transition.

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Robin Schaufler's avatar

Deep sympathy for your loss of Maisy.

Social fracturing has been with us since we became human. I just finished reading Catching Fire: How Cooking Made Us Human by Richard Wrangham. Cooking evolved homo habilis into homo erectus. In order to cook routinely, we needed to hunt and gather, which produced the first surplus, even if surplus only lasted a few hours.

Surplus meant property. The time spent for cooking and its preparation required protection. Protection fell to men, so cooking fell to women, trapping women in bondage to a male protection racket. So slavery has been with us since we were homo erectus, and slavery is certainly a fracturing social institution.

The carbon pulse has lengthened lives and allowed reduction in childbearing, making each child and marital bond more precious. A social benefit of the carbon pulse is a reduction of human and animal slavery, and another is permission to love and grieve. Perhaps as we turn the peak of the pulse, we can experience what Joanna Macy calls The Great Turning, and begin to heal from our original homo erectus conflict.

Healing is never pleasant. It hurts. It itches. It has side effects. Go ahead and weep, dear Nate, and may you be healed. Your grief is rooted in love.

Your followers feel your love, and we love you in return. Namaste.

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